February 2023-Week 4 Bookclub
Book Club Chat:
P:Confession…I didn’t read it
L:Sorry. It is dance night and it is a little late every Wednesday.
M:WHAT THE #%_#%<!!!!
M:Congrats on not clawing her eyes out!
M: "I wish you diarrhea and scabies"
G: Reacted to "I wish you diarrhea..." with 😂
L: Reacted to ""I wish you diarrhea..." with 😂
N: Fierce Compassion
M: I could probably use that LOL
M:Fierce Self-Compassion
S: here's a link to the book
https://amzn.to/3Y60Fkr
M: Reacted to "here's a link to the..." with 👏
K: Thanks Sam!
L: I have an Oakley! She Rocks!!!
L: It’s hard!!! LOL!
M: I was in UT this weekend and thought a similar thing. All of this, millions of dollars because of a farm boy
S: yeah, I can't wait to get out of Utah
L:A crappy farm boy that didn’t want to work! LOL!
s: Enmeshment and co-dependency runs deep in mormon culture
N: I’m sorry you got to experience the horrors of “kindness” 😢
N: What is this “limits” or “boundaries” of which you speak?
M: Win boundaries. LOL
L: In a way you did win because you spoke your truth.
L: YES! S! That was awesome!
L:I still can't get into the Facebook group.
M: I enjoyed it. Thanks for sharing!
s: In the book she talks about temporary discomfort for long term personal peace
M: Reacted to "In the book she talk..." with ❤️
L: Reacted to "In the book she talk..." with ❤️
L: Replying to "In the book she talk..."
I really do believe that works! It is just hard.
L: Thank you for that! ❤️
L: There is definitely grieving for hopes of what I want her to be
L: That describes my entire relationship with my dad.
N: Reacted to "There is definitely …" with 👍
N: Did you explicitly state the “selectively deep” boundaries?
N: Same, L
L: Reacted to "Same, Lori" with 💔
N: Thank you 🙏
L: My dad won’t even text me or talk to me. It all goes through my mom.
Natasha Helfer : Radical acceptance and no expectations
L: Thank you.
